Lubricants Compatible with Sex Toys
Here’s how to choose the right lubricant for the material of your sex toy.
Not all lubricants are compatible with all sex toys.
Choosing the wrong one can shorten their lifespan and even affect your intimate health.
Why Is Compatibility Important?
Sex toys are often made from silicone, tempered glass, stainless steel, or ABS plastics.
Some materials, like medical-grade silicone, are porous or sensitive to certain substances.
An unsuitable lubricant can damage them, cause cracks, or leave residues that promote bacterial growth.
Lubricants also have different bases—water, silicone, oil, or hybrid—and each interacts differently with toys.
How to Know If a Lubricant Is Safe for Your Toy?
Read the labels : Most lubricants indicate whether they are compatible with silicone or latex.
Do a material test: Apply a small amount to the toy’s base, wait a few hours, and check for texture changes.
Choose high-quality lubricants from trusted brands (Eros, Pjur, Water Feel, Shunga, Swede ...).
If you're prone to infections or have sensitive skin, avoid lubricants with artificial fragrances, parabens, or glycerin.
Silicone Sex Toys
Silicone sex toys are the most popular due to their softness, flexibility, and realistic appearance.
Silicone is one of the most delicate materials when choosing lubricants.
Examples of silicone sex toys: vibrators , dildos , silicone anal plugs , clitoral suction toys with silicone tips...
Water-Based Lubricants
100% Compatibility .
This is the safest option because they don''t contain compounds that chemically react with silicone . They are gentle, easy to clean, and do not alter the toy''s surface.
They are also suitable for sensitive skin, especially if hypoallergenic and glycerin-free.
Silicone-Based Lubricants
Avoid Them!!! NOT COMPATIBLE .
Silicone lubricants are not safe because they contain the same or similar compounds as the toy material. This chemical similarity causes a reaction where the lubricant begins to melt with the toy.
The toy may become unusable (even after a single application).
The toy''s surface will become sticky or melted. Bacteria may also accumulate, posing a hygiene risk.
Hybrid Lubricants (Water + Silicone)
Use with Caution.
Potentially safe, but depends on the quality of the toy and the lubricant''s formula.
Though water-based, they contain a small amount of silicone that could weaken the surface if the material is not high-quality.
Tempered Glass or Crystal Sex Toys
Tempered glass or crystal sex toys feature a non-porous, ultra-smooth and highly resistant surface .
They are compatible with any type of lubricant.
Glass does not absorb lubricants , preserves hygiene, enhances glide and is easy to sterilize.
Water-Based Lubricants
100% Compatibility.
Water-based lubricants are 100% safe with tempered glass toys as they do not react chemically or affect the surface. Their light texture is enough thanks to the smooth glass finish, providing natural glide with little product .
We recommend them for sensitive skin or if you prefer a clean, easy-to-rinse experience . Also ideal for combining with more delicate materials.
Silicone-Based Lubricants
100% Compatibility.
Tempered glass is not affected by silicone lubricants , so you can use them without risk. They offer a more lasting, silky sensation.
Glass toys can be cooled or warmed with water , and these lubricants are ideal for underwater play or long sessions .
The combination of firm surface and intense lubrication takes pleasure to a new level.
Hybrid Lubricants (Water + Silicone)
100% Compatibility.
Hybrid lubricants combine the best of both worlds: the lightness of water and the silkiness of silicone .
They don''t cause any reaction with glass, so they are completely safe.
Very versatile: whether using multiple toys or seeking longer-lasting lubrication with easy cleanup.
Stainless Steel Sex Toys
Stainless steel sex toys stand out for their durability, weight, firm texture, and non-porous surface . They are often used for precision anal stimulation or dilation .
Compatible with all types of lubricants.
Stainless steel is hygienic, sterilizable, and extremely durable . It can be cleaned with hot water and soap, or even boiled or disinfected with alcohol without any risk.
Water-Based Lubricants
100% Compatibility.
Water-based lubricants are completely safe for stainless steel plugs and toys. They don''t damage the surface or cause corrosion because surgical steel is inert and non-porous . The light texture works perfectly on the smooth finish of the steel.
We recommend them for beginners using metal toys and for quick, easy cleaning.
Also ideal if you plan to combine them with more delicate materials like silicone.
Silicone-Based Lubricants
100% Compatibility.
Stainless steel is unaffected by silicone lubricants. In fact, their thick, silky texture is enhanced by the weight and rigidity of steel, creating a more intense and long-lasting glide.
They are great for anal play, prostate massage, or long sessions that require consistent lubrication.
Hybrid Lubricants (Water + Silicone)
100% Compatibility.
Stainless steel does not react or degrade with any of the ingredients.
This combination offers a balanced lubrication experience: longer-lasting than water-based, yet lighter than pure silicone.
Water‑Based Lubricants
The most versatile and safest option . They work perfectly with silicone dildos , silicone vibrators , anal plugs , glass dildos , metal toys and clitoral suction devices .
Compatible with all types of sex toys.
They don’t alter materials like medical silicone, ABS, TPE, or TPR. They are very easy to clean, leave no residue and are often hypoallergenic .
Adequate for vaginal, anal or oral sex.
Their main drawback is they dry out faster than other lubricants, so reapplication may be needed during sex.
We offer a wide variety of options : natural, unscented , flavored , warming , cooling , aloe vera, vegan …
Silicone-Based Lubricants
NOT compatible with silicone toys as they can damage the material, making it sticky or unusable.
These lubricants provide intense, silky, and long-lasting lubrication.
Compatible with tempered glass and metal (stainless steel) toys.
With these toys, silicone won’t affect the surface or internal structure.
Perfect for long sex sessions, body-to-body massages, or bath and shower play.
Use them with non-porous toys or directly on the skin for intimate massages.
Their silky texture enhances skin-to-skin contact.
And what about erotic massage products? Oils, gels, creams …
Compatible Products:
Water‑based creams and gels, without oils or fragrance.
Some gels and creams specifically formulated for intimate use may be suitable if their base is water. They are safe if labeled as compatible with silicone or condoms.
Ben Wa balls should only be used if their internal lubricant contains no oils . Ideally, limit their use to glass or steel toys and avoid silicone for safety.
Non‑Compatible Products:
Massage oils, candles, oily creams, and fatty-based cosmetics .
These products can damage silicone toys, leave hard‑to‑clean residues, or interfere with motorized toy functions.
Edible body paints, erotic powders and body chocolates .
Not formulated for use with toys. They can stain, leave sticky residues and compromise toy hygiene.
Bath salts, fizzy bombs and foams .
If you use toys in water, these may affect internal mechanisms, seals and materials. It’s recommended to avoid simultaneous use.