BDSM  /  BONDAGE

Are you dominant or submissive? Find out buying our products and items for BDSM / Bondage. Accessories for experts or newcomers who want to experience the dark side of sex.

New Arrivals

New 2025: new hoods, torso harnesses, gags and long whips.

Calexotics Nocturnal - Gag Ball
Gag Ball
Ball gag

EUR 17,90

 

Spank & Collar

Spank

Spanking is slapping someone's buttocks with a flattened object for sexual arousal or gratification.

Spanking is the most popular activity in the world of BDSM.

Consent is absolutely required. Discuss what you want (and don't want) out of the experience, as well as your boundaries.

BDSM Collars

A BDSM collar is something that is worn around the neck, similar to a necklace or a choker.

Collars represent being a submissive or being owned.

A collar makes your partner feel more submissive and committed to your relationship (becomes emotionally and physically attached to it).

 
 

Spanking BDSM

Enjoy using our exotic floggers and riding crops to discipline your obedient partner. Spanking is defined as controlling your sexual partner's pain or pleasure by hitting his body with bdsm floggers such as paddles, floggers, riding crops, rods, and so on.

Darkness Fetish Black Paddle
Paddle
Spanking paddle

25,90EUR 20,70

Begme Black Edition Vegan Leather Flogger
Flogger
Flogger

22,90EUR 18,30

Kink - 138 cm long PVC whip
Kink 17766
Whip

EUR 10,90

 

BDSM Collars

A BDSM collar is a piece of jewelry or accessory worn in BDSM culture as a symbol of ownership, submission, or commitment. It is used to symbolize the Dominant / Submissive relationship and as a practical tool in bondage sessions.

 

Harness & Head

BDSM Sexual Harnesses

A bondage harness is a piece of BDSM equipment worn for bondage purposes. The harness is typically made up of a series of leather straps, usually between 1 and 2 cm wide, that are connected together in such a way that a person can 'wear' the item.

A strap-on is a two-piece sex toy with a dildo.

The dildo is secured with a harness that fastens around the wearer's hips. Strap-ons are used for penetrative sex.

Get a harness that you feel comfortable in because that's the most important factor.

Head bondage

Discover with our blindfolds if it's true that depriving you of your sight arouses your other senses to levels of pleasure you've never experienced before. Control over your partner's senses is significantly more powerful than you may imagine.

Blindfolds, masks, hoods, and muzzles are great for limiting your vision.

Blindfolds restrict your vision but actually grant you more independence than you might think. You may now relax and take pleasure in whatever is happening right now.

 
 

BDSM Sexual Harnesses

A sexual harness enables you to anchor a penis or dildo and penetrate your partner. Bondage harnesses are made out of a number of leather straps that are 1 to 2 cm wide and connected together to fit the harness to the body, generally around the waist.

 

Head bondage

Blindfolds, Head masks, Hoods, Muzzles. Discover with our blindfolds if it is true that depriving you of the sense of sight awakens much more other senses, reaching limits of pleasure that you had never felt before. Do you want to try to completely cover your partner's head ?

 

Gag, Nipple & Tickler

Erotic Gag

Mouth gags are useful, compact equipment that can be used to prevent speaking, although the wearer can still groan and grunt.

Gags can be used as a form of humiliation

They establish a BDSM dominant-submissive dynamic : the gag-wearer is the submissive partner while the other is the dominant.

Nipple Clamp/Suction Cup

Nipple clamps include a stainless steel weight that pivots freely on a metal rod.

Nipple Clamps, clamps and suction cups are fantastic compliments for your bondage games.

Nipple suckers, often called pumps or vacuums, work like small mouths on the nipples to gently increase blood flow.

Tickler

Tickling is a fun activity that takes place during sensual foreplay.

The purpose of a feather tickler is to stimulate the sensory system ...

... heighten the sensation across your erogenous zones, and improve the overall experience by increasing blood flow to the skin's surface.

 
 

Mouth Gags BDSM

A mouth gag is a device to keep your submissive quiet in bdsm and submission sex games. Some erotic gags have holes for breathing comfortably.

 

Nipple Clamps and Suction Cups

Sex clamps enhance the size and sensitivity of a woman's nipples. Suction cups stimulate by sucking the nipple. Nipple sex toys.

 

Erotic tickling

Products designed to sexually stimulate your sex companion. If you want to gently caress and tickle the skin, use a feather duster. For extra forceful tickling, use our steel pinwheels or pinwheels.

 

Cuffs & Rope

Bondage cuffs

There is a wide variety of handcuffs and other forms of restraints to choose from.

Wristcuffs are made of leather or nylon, they're far more comfortable than metal ones.

Once you've tied your partner up, you'll have complete physical dominion over them.

Bondage ropes

Cotton, Silk, Nylon, Polyester, and other synthetic fibers are all used to make bondage ropes.

For those who enjoy the sensation of surrendering during sex.

Some people enjoy the feel of the soft (or rough) rope against their skin. It can feel like a tight hug that makes you feel good.

 
 

Bondage cuffs

Cuffs are used mainly for bondage and discipline but can also be used for sado-masochism games. By tying your partner you will have total control over his or her body. Types of cuffs : handcuffs, wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, chain cuffs, armbinders, over the door...

 

Bondage ropes (Shibari)

Rope bondage, also known as shibari bondage, is a sexual action in which a person is immobilized using a particular rope. Shibari and kinbaku ropes are constructed of cotton, jute, or silk.

 

Restraint, Suspension & Tape

Restraint

Using restraints is an excellent way to delve deeper into the exciting realm of bondage and experience a whole new dimension of pleasure and play.

Take command of your lover and keep your partner in a vulnerable position!

These restraints will allow you to force your lover to submit in bed, on the floor, or standing up. Discover the thrill of bondage and fulfill your deepest fetish fantasies!

Suspension BDSM

Also known as "hanging out", suspension bondage is a type of sexual bondage in which a bound individual is hanged from one or more overhead suspension points.

Maintain full suspension of your partner's arms in the air by holding them there or preventing them from contacting the ground.

Suspension bondage is classified into three positions: vertical, horizontal, and inverted. It is associated with a higher level of danger compared to other types of sexual bonding.

Bondage Tapes

A bondage tape is a strip of thin plastic material (latex in most cases) that attaches exclusively to itself; it is primarily meant for use in erotic bondage.

A bondage tape can be used in a variety of ways.

Lingerie, a blindfold, a mouth gag, handcuffs, a whole-body restraint, and a body-to-furniture restraint can all be accomplished with a single roll of Bondage tape.

There are both adhesive and non-adhesive varieties of pleasure bondage tape.

 
 

Immobilizations and Restraints for BDSM

Items to immobilize the body of your significant other. Perfect for bdsm sex games, bondage, and submission.

Darkness Hogtie Set Black
Hog Tie
Hog Tie

EUR 32,90

 

Suspension BDSM / Bondage

Items to hold a person in suspension in bondage and sexual submission games. Sex swings, steel bars and other restraints.

 

Bondage Tapes

Bondage tape is a latex or thin plastic strip that sticks to the skin. It can be used as a blindfold, gag, restraints, or to wrap the entire body. Non-adhesive bdsm tapes are also available.

Darkness Sticky Tape Red 15m
Tape
Adhesive

16,90EUR 13,50

 

Electric shock & Kit

Electric shock

Erotic electrostimulation, often known as e-stim or electrosex, is a form of sexual activity that involves applying electrical stimulation to the nerves of the body with the help of a power source in order to achieve sexual stimulation.

For the most experienced of BDSM users only.

To start the electro stimulation session, you need a device called a shock generator or a stimulator. This is because the electric shock does not come from the accessories on their own.

Before you begin, take the necessary precautions and read carefully all manual instructions.

BDSM Kit

These BDSM kits will aid in the easier, clearer, and more intense division of dominant and subordinate roles.

Perfect for couples who have always desired to engage in bondage.

In most cases, a normal kit will consist of the following components: ankle cuffs, wrist restraints, a leather flogger, a blindfold, and four bed restraints.

Try out different types of submission ! You and your partner can live out your wildest domination game fantasies !

 
 

Electric shock

Erotic electrostimulation (e-stim or electrosex) is a sexual practice involving the application of electrical stimulation to the nerves of the body, using a power source for purposes of sexual stimulation. Recommended for advanced BDSM users.

 

BDSM Kits

Dare to experience new sensations and take your intimate play to the next level with our complete BDSM kits. They include handcuffs, whips, ropes, blindfolds, gags, and collars — perfect for creating submission and domination scenarios, intensifying desire, and exploring pleasure in a safe and thrilling way.

 

Bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism

Bondage

A person who engages in bondage either submits to being tied down or ties down another person for the purpose of sexual gratification.

 

Before you begin bondage play, consider the following suggestions:

1. No alcohol or drugs. Drunkenness and drugs ruin the experience.

2. We recommend that you have some prior practice with easier experiences such as blindfold play or the use of wrist restraints before beginning with bondage ropes.

3. Establish basic rules with your partner.

4. Every participant should agree on a "safe word" or signal that either can use to indicate that a boundary has been crossed, and a break is required.

5. It's important to know how to avoid damaging blood flow or nerve endings during bondage play before partaking in it.

6. Always keep safety scissors on hand.

 

Bondage may involve the use of handcuffs, wrist cuffs, restrictions, adhesive tapes, and other devices, but shibari is the practice of binding a partner with rope.

Shibari is a contemporary method of rope bonding that was developed in Japan.

It is often referred to as Japanese rope bondage or "kinbaku." Shibari means "tying," while kinbaku means "tight binding."

The proper placement of knots, for instance, can trigger pressure points on the body, facilitating the flow of energy.

Discipline and Domination

Dominance is when one person (the dominant) uses their mind, body, or emotions to control another person (the submissive) in a way that makes both people feel sexual or erotic pleasure.

In BDSM, the dominant sets rules for the submissive to follow. Discipline teaches the submissive how to behave and the consequences of breaking rules.

Punishment (physical, psychological, or both) is commonly used to correct misbehavior.

A dominant may act as if the submissive is wrong and deserves punishment or humiliation.

The submissive's role is to express his or her will and then give up power to the dominant, who bears responsibility for it.

Ball gags, nipple clamps, spanking paddles, floggers, hot wax, electrical stimulation, handcuffs, chains, collars with leashes, cock cages, and other such devices are frequently used in dominance scenes.

Submissives may be tied and gagged, confined to a bed or suspended from a ceiling, or sexually taunted or seduced.

Make your submissive keep quiet with a ball gag or walk like a dog. Bring your subordinate to the brink of climax, then handcuff him or her.

Cuckolding occurs when the dominant has sex with someone else while forcing the submissive to observe.

All equipment used should be checked for safety, and dominants should take measures that allow for swift release of any restraints in the event of an emergency.

Sadism and Masochism

The term "sadist" refers to someone who derives a sexual high from seeing other people suffer. Use of bondage, impact play, or degradation on another person falls into this category as well.

The term "masochism" is described as the erogenous enjoyment of suffering. Some examples of this are being restrained or beaten, while others are more subtle, such biting or violent sexual encounters.

S&M practitioners take pleasure in using humiliation and other forms of emotional manipulation to force others to submit.

Flogging or spanking is a form of impact play in which the dominant physically punishes the submissive for sexual gratification. The dominant may use their hands, a whip, paddle, or crop.

Blood flow to the groin is increased during an erotic spanking, and the brain responds by releasing feel-good chemicals like endorphins and dopamine, which heighten the submissive's sexual enjoyment.

S&M takes inspiration from bondage. Restricting the submissive's senses or mobility through bondage helps heighten the sensations experienced, and hence the sexual stimulation.

Blindfolds, adhesive tapes, rope ties, handcuffs, wristcuffs, ball gags and suspension bars are all examples of common sensory deprivation equipment used in S&M.

Nipple play : clamps that can be applied to the nipples to produce a pinching feeling.

Electro stimulation : Electrical devices that generate tiny discharges in the body where they're placed. Start your erogenous zone nerve endings

Experiencing extremes of heat and cold may be a lot of fun : sensitive and erogenous zones treated with ice cubes, heated wax, or sexual stimulation gels.

 

How does spanking work?

Before you begin, establish a safe word (like "red, yellow, green") or an agreement about communication.

Spanking should only be done on the buttocks or upper thighs.

Feel free to vary the location and intensity of your spankings.

Soft spankings can become tedious, but harsh spankings are unsustainable.

After that, it's critical that the couple take some time for aftercare, which is especially important after BDSM sex.

Mouth Gags

Gags are often used alongside other physical constraints in games involving punishment and control. Some people fetishize the sound gagged persons make, while others like their excessive drooling.

To prevent asphyxiation some gags allow the submissive to breathe normally by incorporating breathing holes into their design.

Some tips :

1. Make sure a gag fits and isn't too tight.

2. Never block a gag user's nose.

3.Never gag a sick or allergic person.

4.Never leave a gagged submissive alone.

5.Wash your gag regularly to prevent the growth and transmission of bacteria.

The BDSM Collar Ceremony

The BDSM Collar Ceremony pledges a dominant to their slave for life.

Blue collars are "consideration" or "trainee" collars.

Red collars indicate a person's desire to be a submissive and their partner's acceptance as a sub.

Purple collars indicate a submissive that has embraced their role, learnt most submissive techniques, and wants to prove themselves.

Black collars might mean a person has mastered submissive qualities and is delighted to be their dominant's "slave.

 

Nipple sensitivity

For both men and women, the nipples are among the most sensitive parts of the body.

Nipple torture is said to be a combination of pain and pleasure.

If you are able to cut off the blood supply to the network of nerve endings in the nipples, you will be able to achieve levels of sensitivity that are off the charts.

When a woman is menstruating, rubbing her nipples can drive her insane.

Nipplegasms are a type of orgasm that can occur in certain individuals as a result of nipple stimulation.

Handcuffs and Shibari bondage

While cuffs are most often associated with forms of discipline and bonding, they can also be employed in sadomasochistic contexts.

Some wristcuffs can also be used on the ankles.

Some tips:

1. Check that the cuffs are not too tight to prevent circulation.

2. Don't suspend anyone from the ground using regular cuffs.

Rope bondage, also known as shibari bondage, is the practice of using rope to bind, shackle, suspend, or otherwise constrain a person.

To avoid skin irritation or allergic responses, your first rope should be made of cotton because it is gentle on the skin and easy to knot.

Some tips:

1. Use shorter ropes to begin with because they are less cumbersome.

2. Keep safety scissors on hand at all times.

Feather ticklers for massage

Ticklers are very easy to use and don't cost much.

Ticklers can be used in a variety of ways.

One can achieve a wide range of feelings by varying the pressure applied and the type of strokes used with these devices.

You should give a variety of various combinations of light, delicate strokes and longer, more forceful strokes a go to discover which one your partner responds to best.

Usually, they are paired with blindfolds, but when a little whipping is added, it may take sensation play to a whole new level.